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A good reason why close friends invite us to their home is because they want to start a new on-going activity with us but for a purpose mutually exclusive to that of the first on-going activity with us. This is how you start a true relationship. According to Thumoslang, a true relationship requires two different on-going activities whose purposes at mutually exclusive. When people invite you home, you better understand how relationships work.
Thumoslang is rooted on the following: If you want to become an expert in a particular field, you must first learn of its nomenclature. Most of us are not systematically good at human relationships. We were never taught of any nomenclature for social life. There was no such teacher until 2017, when Nickantony Quach finished writing the book, THUMOS: Adulthood, Love & Collaboration, now available on Amazon.com and at Barnes & Noble. For the first time both the magic of the book and the power of Thumoslang are demonstrated at once within a single conversation, captured by the six episodes in Season 1 of #Thumoslang101.